No matter what level of the match there will always be decisions that are difficult for the referee to make.  We can give reasons why these decisions are difficult. These include too many bodies close to the ball restricting the view of the referees, the referee being out of position, the weather, the ‘temperature’ of the match, the speed of the action, how the Law is applied and player reaction.  But they have to be made and the referees and players have to live with them. 

Referees are trained to make these decisions.  They need to appear confident, keep a straight face even though they might not be sure of the decision.  They should acknowledge that there are close calls, stick with the decision and move on to the next phase of play whilst still maintaining concentration.

It can be argued that players, coaches and spectators do not really appreciate the role of the referee.  Referees offer a lot more than just turning up to allow the match to take place.  They can help make the match an enjoyable experience for all who are involved.  Likewise they can contribute to feelings of frustration and dissatisfaction particularly when decisions have to be made that are difficult and match affecting.

Everyone, however, has a responsibility to create the right environment to allow the referee to perform as well as possible.  To achieve this, the refereeing and playing communities have to work with each other to create this environment.  Referees need to present a positive image of what they do by taking opportunities to be friendly, good humoured, approachable and be seen to be enjoying their role.  If they referee matches in a common sense manner they will be seen to be an integral part of the game and empathetic to the needs of the players.  They should acknowledge their mistakes and be prepared explain why they may have made them.

When players, coaches and spectators appreciate the role of the referee it is more likely that the right environment will be created, not only for making difficult decisions, but also for the development of the Game.

Hence

“BETTER OFFICIALS, BETTER GAME…”